Fun, simple, and easy!

• Agenda: 30 minutes of open socializing, then enjoy 8-12 speed dating rounds (5 minutes each) with a break midway. We make it easy to connect with each date. Stick around after the event to chat more if you'd like.

• Pairing: We use advanced matchmaking technology to pair you based on a quick pre-event questionnaire. The tech will also help you navigate the event and send likes.

• Getting Your Matches: Mutual matches are notified 2 hours after the event, so you can keep the convo going!

Watch this brief video on how to update your FIND profile

Our matchmaking tech! We are the only ones in your city with the matchmaking tech which allows you to:

• Know that your dates are going to be the most compatible people in the room

• No repeat dates. The software tracks your dates so you’ll never go speed dating with the same person if you come to multiple speed dating events

• Easy navigation during the event. You’ll know the table, name, and picture of your date.

• You’ll know your matches that night! No waiting 2-3 days to see if that guy at round 3 liked you.

You'll go on dates with people who are most compatible with you, based on your FIND dating profile.

• Preferred age

• Type of relationship I'm looking for

• Do you have children?

• Are you open to dating someone who has children?

• Are you open to having kids with a future partner?

Questions may vary depending on the group and singles event.

You will talk to 8-12 people, depending on preferences and participants.

Each mixer may have a different theme or activity. You will meet new people in a low-pressure setting, with games, interactive activities, and conversation prompts to make it easy to make connections.

Using our matchmaking tech, you can check your compatibility score with everyone in the room and send “likes” throughout the event—mutual matches are sent out just hours later.

A lot of our events go very fast - sometimes up to a month in advance. If you see a spot available, don't wait!

Here are 3 things to do to help make sure you get a spot:

1. Follow your city page on Eventbrite

2. Join our mailing list at the bottom of our homepage to get our bi-monthly newsletter and texts with all upcoming events.

3. Follow us on social media @findindianapolis, @findcincinnati, @findfortwayne @findlouisville to stay in the know about each event.

Definitely not! We care deeply about our guests' experiences and that includes ensuring a balanced ratio by age and gender for our hetero events, so that you have the best chance of finding a match.

We sell tickets 50/50 men/women and almost always reach that ratio exactly as most of our events sell out.

However, we cannot control who actually shows up but we strive our best to have a balanced ratio.

Don't forget that this is also a great opportunity to meet other single friends, not just dates!

Can't make it anymore? Contact us at least 7 days in advance for a refund or ticket transfer—we use this policy to keep our events balanced from a ratio perspective. You can also send a friend in your place!

Running late? We can generally accommodate if you are a little bit late; however, you may miss a few rounds, and it can complicate things a bit on our end.

• Yes! We do have a waitlist. Please contact us at 317-721-7371 with your name, age, event, and best contact to let you know when a spot opens up.

• The waitlist is only utilized if an event is sold out and a spot opens up. If a ticket in your age range becomes available, we’ll reach out in the order submissions were received.

If you’re more than 1-2 years outside the range for the event, we ask that you please hold off for an event that is a better fit. Guests sign up expecting to meet people in the listed range, and we want to honor that.

For age-specific tickets, please don’t grab one outside your group if it’s sold out—we curate our ratios very carefully, so everyone gets the best possible experience.

At speed dating, you won't be restricted to only meeting people in the ticket age range - you’ll be able to set your preferred age range so that your mini dates the most compatible for you!

Long answer short, we’d love to! We have a passion for creating spaces and events where all types of people can make new connections.

Currently, most attendees/ people interested in attending are between 21-40 and searching for hetero matches, so that’s where you'll see the most events.

We have LGBTQIA+ events and events for singles 45+ every 2-3 months.

We analyze closely to understand demand, because we of course can’t host a successful event if not enough people show up. If you haven’t already, you can log your interest — that way, you’ll be the first to know when we have enough people to launch something that you feel is a great fit for you.

And if you know others in your community or age range who might be interested, feel free to send them the interest form!

We’d love to welcome you to one of our events soon.

Each event may have a slightly different agenda and venue, but always wear something that you feel confident and comfortable in.

Wear something that you feel will make a great first impression! Cute but casual first date attire encouraged.

Don’ts

• Sweatshirts or sweatpants

• Clothes with stains

• Clothes with holes

• Suit (unless that’s your normal attire)

• Flip flops - we don’t live near beach so no

• Wrinkly shirt - Buy some fabric spray, steamer, or iron

• Your ID. You may need your license or another form of ID to enter the venue and for check-in.

• A charged phone. Most events utilize a web-based app that you will use on your phone’s browser.

• An open mind and smile :) It’s most important that you bring an authentic version of yourself and come with an open mind to meeting new people and all kinds of humans

Our events are thoughtfully designed to help you spark real, meaningful connections in a fun and low-pressure environment.

They’re efficient, engaging, and backed by glowing reviews and impressive match rates—proof that they really work!