FIND’s Dating Skills Workshop Series is designed to help you feel more confident, clear, and prepared when it comes to modern dating.

Filter the F*ckboys - A live workshop for high-achieving women who are done attracting unavailable men online and in real life.

Your coach - Meet Joel.

I'm a dating and relationship coach based in Austin. I host Hot Takes Hot Dates, the city's most popular live dating event, and I've spent three years coaching high-achieving people through the emotional intelligence work that actually leads to lasting relationships.

Unlike therapy, I'm not here to help you process the past. I'm here to help you show up differently starting this week. My clients text me before dates, after dates, and sometimes during dates. That's the kind of support that moves things forward.

The biggest thing I've learned: everyone is afraid to share what they actually want because they think it will push the other person away. I help you say the thing.

Dating Skills Workshop Series by FIND

FIND’s Dating Skills Workshop Series is designed to help you feel more confident, clear, and prepared when it comes to building real connections. Each session brings in trusted experts — from dating coaches to relationship professionals — who break down what actually works in today’s modern dating world.

This isn’t about cheesy pickup lines or pretending to be someone you’re not. It’s about learning how to communicate better, show up with confidence, and navigate dating in a way that feels authentic to you.

You will experience perspectives from various experts and viewpoints. We ask you to keep an open mind and be open to constructive feedback with our experts. You don't have to agree with everything they say, but find what resonates with you and make decisions for your best interests and relationship preferences.